The Luxury Of Nothing

Here's a few words about how losing everything isn't necessarily the end.

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Hi! I’m Peks, and this blog is my compass wrapped up in the truth. A few months ago, I lost my wife, my home, and then my job, too. Now I’m on a journey to find them all again. For years, I let fear be what motivates me. I let myself shrink in the face of it, I let myself become someone who avoids the truth because of it. I made mistakes with money and trust, repeatedly. And these mistakes cost me everything. This isn’t a sob story. This is a turning point. A decision. A promise. This blog is for today and for tomorrow. This blog is for me. And if you’ve ever been in a similar situation. If you’ve ever felt like the ground beneath your feet is wobbly, or gone altogether. If you’ve ever lost the love of your life because of the mistakes you’ve made. If you’d do anything in order to become the person who’d never lose them again. Then this blog is for you, too. Just like me, you owe it to yourself. And to the people who love you and still hope for you. So, welcome and thank you for being here. – Peks If you ever want to reach out for any reason – feel free to do so at 3minfin@gmail.com. I will always do my best to answer everyone.

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  • The Inconspicuous Magic Of Google Sheets

    What exactly do you do when you’ve lost the love of your life, lost your source of income, and are in debilitating debt, serious to the point that your bank account is empty and you still have to find $2000 by the end of the week? YOU GOOGLE SHEETS’ THAT MOFO! And that MOFO was…

  • One foot ahead of the other

    It’s been exactly three months.Three months of loss.Three months of realization.And three months of sitting in the remains of the life we had, the love we built, and the future we lost. I used to think I was functional, even through all of my mistakes – a six-figure income, a home filled with peace and…

  • All in

    My wife didn’t fall head over heels in love with me when we first met. In fact, after briefly dating me many years ago, she confessed that she just wasn’t feeling what she had hoped to and that maybe it would be better if we didn’t waste each other’s time. So, naturally, wishing the best…

  • I’d definitely bring back the loveosaurus, or at least the diplicareosaurus, because we need more of that in this world. And brontosaurus, specifically for the meat.

  • I lost everything

    Sometimes life has a spectacular way of telling us we fucked up and it’s time to reset. And, you know what, life? I hear ya. For better or worse (and I strongly believe in the former), this blog shall be that restart for me. For personal reasons, I’ve decided to commit to building the best…